《老人的性自主权》

 

一直以来，老人上门看病都会抓紧最后的时间，十分淡定地说：“ I have a personal issue, ED ”。 无论是什么种族，跟着来的儿女、媳妇，或者女婿都会被老人吓到一下， 有些甚至听到“私人问题”的话刚落下， 马上转过身，跑去阳台看风景；反应迟钝的，回避不了就希望旁边有个洞，马上跳下去，当着没有听到。所幸，我见过大场面没有被吓到。

讲英文的就会直接说，ED, you know?

讲中文的大概有4种讲法：

1. 我的兰焦不会硬！（草根派）

2. 我的下面。。。好像。。（含蓄派）

3. 我的玉茎无法一柱擎天 （文学派）

4. 我是很强的，不是不会硬，只是还想要更强（ 东山再起派）

因为已经不是第一次听到这些要求，我反而比病人更加淡定， 通常接下来，老人就会深深的吐了一口气， 好像终于找到了可以听懂他们心声的人。一般上，人们都认为70 - 80多岁的老人还想要什么？是的，有关老人的性自主权，在保守东方社会还是处于一种比较难以启齿的敏感的话题，人们不太愿意讨论，也不知道从何谈起。 也就是因为这样，会闹出很多悲剧。

我听过这样的故事， 一位久病卧床的老爷子开始神志不清、循衣摸床，有回光返照的现象。老爷子快要去世的前一天对 女儿说，很想念去世己久的太太， 最近一直梦见穿上漂亮衣裳的太太。于是，女儿和看护谈好条件，希望她穿上妈妈身前的衣服和老爸在漆黑的房间睡一晚，女儿告诉看护，反正老爸已经是垂死的老人，不会构成强奸这种事，最多就是亲亲和抱抱的举动。结果看护二话不说马上答应了。 也就是这样， 这两个女人成功完成老爷子心愿，把他送往另一个世界。 就只是睡一晚，老人安详离世， 脸上一点痛苦都没有。

第2个故事，发生在我朋友那边，她的父母是一对十分恩爱的老夫妻。 有一天女儿无意中发现爸爸悄悄带失痴的妈妈去看妇科。她在猜测，这不对呀？怎么会去看妇科，不是走去看脑科？后来“私下侦察”，才发现妈妈好像隐瞒阴道发炎的事。 经过一番顺藤摸瓜， 她发现原来父母亲那么“劲”，活到老，做到老！做太多出问题了， 却好像小孩子，不知道怎么处理。现在她比较难去跟父母沟通，也很难跟他们了解，到底用了什么劣等的情趣用品造成感染， 同时也是很担心父亲到底在外面买些什么壮阳药来吃， 害怕影响他的健康。

第3个故事比较鬼扯， 有一个朋友给我寄了好几段辣眼睛的视频， 好像是发生在台湾的。某人家里请了外籍看护，本来老爷子每天都在盘算着什么时候进棺材，日子过得十分消极。不过，自从来了个年轻又有爱心的菲律宾看护，老爷子身体越来越硬朗了！某天家人在闭路电视里看到不应该看到的“活动”。看护与老爷子上演“十八般武艺”， 我看到其中一招“老汉推车”，Pui～ 真的体力超好了，年轻人都认输了。不过， 这种事太激烈，也要提防 马上风的危险性呀！

在普通人的眼里，认为老人还每天想着那种事，是太过分了？不晓得你们是否认为残障人士、智商低、中风瘫痪以及老人是不是不能够拥有性的主自权？ 你们认为老人不健康，身体有很多疾病，更不应该享受性生活？ 身体无法活动自如的人，是否让别人帮忙发泄性欲是不能够被大众接受的提议？

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＃中药 ＃中医 ＃谦和堂 #性自主权 ＃老年人 

小何中医杂谈第49集 : 如何理性地看待打疫苗，一起来看新冠疫苗好处与坏处 Rational discussion Pros and Cons of mandatory vaccination in Malaysia

Rethink the Pros and Cons of Covid-19 vaccination. A rational discussion about mandatory vaccination in Malaysia. 

如何客观与理性地看待打疫苗这件事？当疫苗神话破灭之际，面对疫情反扑，人们未来该何去何从？

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小何中医杂谈第48集 ：慈禧光绪逃亡轶事 Empress Dowager Cixi’s anecdote during the escape from Forbidden city

有些中药小故事，往往在历史人物身上看到相当大的反差。在极度奢靡生活与盛宴的背后，慈禧太后救急上品竟然是一种平平无奇的便宜中药。

In the anecdote of Empress Dowager Cixi's escaped from Forbidden city, there was a very common Chinese herb that saved her life. Let's us looked at what happened to Cixi during her trip to Pingyao.  

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中医美容 Lesson 17 : 你的神奇面膜为什么可以让整张脸发亮？Beware of toxic ingredients in face mask that brighten your skin instantly.

小心那些声称用了又白、又亮，完全透光的面膜，会让你赔了夫人又折兵。很多皮肤干燥、过敏或受损都是一些奇怪护肤品惹的祸。

Beware of those facial mask that claims to make your face glow instantly. You never know what kind of dangerous ingredients hidden in it. 

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My opinion on Covid-19 vaccine: reflections on natural and passive immunity (Part 4)

  

But if the media is heading towards a one-sided approach, distorted the facts, misled or suppressing the voice of the other, then we will doubt the motive behind those mainstream media. So I hope you will spend more time searching, analyzing and understanding. You will soon find that there is no mechanical answer that can answer how this world operates.

I know in some countries, people have to take into reality consideration, not everyone can manage their health very well because of poverty. In order to pay attention to the interests of the whole, vaccines are the cheapest method to restart the economy. People can only think of the present when they still can work. It is unquestionable that hunger and poverty will definitely limit the visualization and planning for the future.


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My opinion on Covid-19 vaccine: reflections on natural and passive immunity (Part 3)

  

In Western countries, at least 40%-50% of the population opposes mandatory vaccination. The Mainstream media described those anti-vaccine people as insane people who believe in conspiracy theories. But if you study carefully, you will find that the voices of a group of scientists are completely muted. In fact, in addition to vaccines, we have to know, our body's immune system is a natural and powerful weapon against viruses.

In front of us, one is natural and the other is artificial immunity. My intention is not to influence you to be anti-vaccine, but to inspire you to think of what is happening now. You have to continue reading to learn, to analyse, to understand more.

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My opinion on Covid-19 vaccine: reflections on natural and passive immunity (Part 2)

Regardless of the advantages of  vaccines, it is still an artificial immunization method; regardless of the antiviral medicines invented in the future, in the end, it depends on our own immune function. There is a Chinese Medicine Quote: Treat the symptoms of the disease when it is urgent, treat the root of the cause when the disease is not severe. Indeed, vaccines are a method of curing the symptoms, not the disease. After being vaccinated, the artificially stimulated antibodies will slip off within a period of time. And I think, what people should do is to manage a healthy lifestyle. Another Chinese Medicine Quote mentioned: When there is sufficient healthy Qi inside, pathogenic factors have no way to invade the body. The healthy Qi symbolizes our strong immune system.

Helpless, the mainstream media unanimously emphasized that the only antidote for human beings is vaccines. Especially in Eastern society, people have implanted a conventional mindset that people who do not get vaccines are very dangerous and selfish people. But no one even said, if a healthy person has very high antibodies does not need to be vaccinated; a person who has been infected with Covid-19, who has recovered well also does not need a vaccine. These are facts, supported by scientific research.

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